We've already heard of the female G-spot. They opened it, searched hard, didn't find it, and (apparently out of frustration) questioned its existence.
As soon as the noise dies down a bit, there it is! – rumor has it that men have a G spot too!
By the way, it is much easier to find it.
What is this?
The male G-spot is often called the P-spot. The "P" stands for the prostate.
Remember, the prostate is a walnut-sized gland located just below the bladder.
The P-spot is not only responsible for orgasms, but also aids in reproduction by producing seminal fluid and helping sperm to live long and thrive after being expelled from the penis.
How to find?
Two ways - inside and outside. You can look for the G-spot in any way - the man will get incredible sensations in any case. It all depends on the degree of trust between the partners.
- Inside. This point is located two inches from the entrance to the anus. Approximately at the level of the first joint of the finger.
- Externally, the prostate can also be stimulated through the perineum. The skin between the scrotum and the anus is literally full of nerve endings. This should not be forgotten during oral sex.
How to stimulate the prostate?
First - dialogue
It is unlikely that a person will be happy if his other half suddenly decides to start such experiments. Some people are very particular about everything related to anal play. Therefore, dialogue comes first.
It is very important to treat each other with respect and remember that not everyone can be turned on by the same things. If your ex-partner was fond of such techniques, this does not mean that the current man will be delighted by it.
Equipment
In order for the search for the P point to bring maximum pleasure to both partners, you need to prepare. You will need:
Lubrication
Any anal sex is impossible without lubricant. Choose a high-quality lubricant, such as a silicone-based one.
A condom
Where the anus is, there are bacteria. Yes, it's not very romantic, but that's life. Be sure to put a condom or latex glove on your finger.
Anal toys
Choose according to your taste. They will add a thrill.
Do not forget!
Hands
Hands should be washed thoroughly and nails should be rounded and trimmed. Infections and injuries aren't part of your plans, are they?
Create a mood
The man should be relaxed and sexually aroused. Hot bath, sensual massage, caresses - don't skimp on the foreplay.
Let's get to work
Is the person calm and ready to start looking for that magic spot?
But take your time - start with external stimulation.
Try this one:
- Use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub and stroke the perineum.
- Experiment, alternate between different speeds and intensities.
- With your other hand, stroke the penis and scrotum.
If you are ready to continue:
- Apply lubricant to your finger and slowly insert it into the anus 2-5 cm.
- Feel around gently to find the prostate. It should feel smooth and round to the touch.
- Once you feel it, start making gentle "come here" movements with your finger.
- Ask the man about his feelings. Speed, intensity - does it all suit him?
- Add to the process a caress with a hand or a whistle - a powerful orgasm is guaranteed for the man.
Host Party Reminder
The first thing you need to do is relax. Only in this case you can get maximum pleasure. And:
- talkAbout your feelings and the limits of what is allowed.
- Toilet. Stimulation of the prostate and anal penetration can induce the urge to both urinate and defecate. With such a combination, it is difficult to relax. Going to the toilet (and showering) before games is mandatory.
- Comfort. Create all the conditions for yourself. Let nothing distract you.
- Enjoy. Everything that happens should bring you pleasure. Ask your other half to use more (less) lube, use sex toys, change positions and don't be silent if something doesn't feel right.
Posy
You can choose any position in which both partners will feel comfortable. But you can start with one of the following:
- Face down. The man lies on his stomach and slightly spreads his legs. The partner places a pillow under his thighs and sits behind him.
- a puppy. He gets on all fours, his partner positioned behind him.
- On the side. The man is lying on his side with one knee pressed to his chest. The partner lies on the back so that it is comfortable for her to stimulate the partner's anus.
I did not like it
This is good. There is nothing about sex that pleases everyone. Maybe it's just not your thing.
If both partners are interested in continuing the experiment, you can try again. So, by trial and error, find a technique that both of you would like. Experiment with positions, sex toys and the amount of lubricant.
Card of pleasure
There are still a bunch of "hot spots" on the man's body that many people for some reason forget about. An unforgivable omission!
Pay attention to areas such as:
- The head of the penis. This area is full of nerve endings. Touching with hands, licking, sucking - use everything. Especially during prostate play. Do not forget about lubrication.
- Frenum. This is an elastic skin fold that connects the lower part of the head of the penis with the foreskin. Insanely sensitive. Competent manipulation of the frenulum will give a man a powerful orgasm. The frenulum can be stimulated with the tongue or the thumb of your free hand.
- Scrotum. Prostate massage in combination with scrotal massage will give the man maximum pleasure. Connect a vibrating toy to the process.
P. S. You can do without sex toys, scented candles and erotic music. But it won't be possible without trust and relaxation. Focus on what's important.
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Many men categorically refuse stimulation of the G-spot. In addition, a huge number of guys do not even know what the prostate is and where it is located! This disgrace must be corrected - try to gradually release the man in bed and do not give up the experiments. No one is saying to get a huge dildo and chase a man around the bedroom with it. Carefully, gradually go down to the area under the testicles - this can be done while whistling. Try different stimulation techniques and watch the man's reaction. It is unlikely that he will refuse - he will definitely like it. And then you can go directly to the G-spot.
The G-spot in men: where it is and how to properly stimulate it
According to the Greeks, the mysterious G-spot in men is the second heart. This poetic name is due to the fact that it is from this point that the whole process of arousal begins. If you specifically affect this area, you can achieve a vivid orgasm. To please a man, it's not enough just to find the "magic button". You have to learn how to stimulate him properly.
What does the G-spot mean in young people?
A man's G-spot is the prostate gland, the stimulation of which causes the muscles to contract. Thanks to this, a person can get very vivid sensations. Such an orgasm is much more colorful than the one that occurs in a young man during stimulation of the genital organ.
The male G-spot is a real find for unearthly pleasure. But to activate the magic button, you need to know where to look for it.
Where is the erogenous point and how to find it
To give your partner a strong orgasm, you need to know where the coveted G-spot in men is located. Its location is very interesting. If the man's penis is outside, then the cherished "button" is located in the area between the rectum and the pubic bones. It has the shape of a walnut or chestnut, occupies an area of about 4 cm2 and weighs no more than 20 g.
In all men, the arousal point is located below the bladder - in the upper part of the urethra. To find it, you need to penetrate the anus to a depth of 5-7 cm. As soon as you feel a small bulge, you can consider that the goal has been achieved.
Men are often worried about looking for the G-spot for fear of being labeled as a same-sex lover. To get real pleasure, you need to get rid of this stereotype. There is nothing wrong with learning and using the magic pea. You need to learn how to stimulate her properly, and then sex with your beloved woman will take on new colors.
How to properly stimulate the area
In order for the G-spot to provide maximum pleasure, it is necessary to properly prepare for the stimulation process. To do this you need:
- Clean out the rectum with a laxative or enema.
- Work on trust as a couple. If you neglect this stage of preparation, the person will not be able to relax and in the end will only get painful sensations.
- The girl needs to cut her long nails. If you accidentally injure the inner mucous membrane of a man, this will lead to the formation of inflammation.
- In order for the stimulation of the G-spot to proceed without unpleasant consequences, strict adherence to hygiene rules is necessary. Before the procedure, you should wash your hands with soap and then put on disposable medical gloves.
- During stimulation, sexologists advise the use of a special intimate lubricant, which will facilitate the penetration of female fingers into the anus. It's called a lubricant. The more there is, the better. It is recommended to choose a lubricant with lidocaine, a substance that helps reduce discomfort. But it is important to remember that the analgesic effect of the lubricant begins after 10-15 minutes.
- In order for the G-spot examination to be painless, the young man must assume a comfortable position. A good option is the lying position: the man is on his back and the girl is between his legs.
With your hand
When the man has taken a comfortable position, the girl should warm his body with a massage. The partner should reach his lover's scrotum and massage the testicles and anus in circular motions. This area is usually considered the external G spot in men and boys.
To distract your partner, you can use oral sex. You need to insert your fingers into the anus carefully and slowly, as if turning a screw. This will allow you to move skin folds apart without causing traumatic effects and increase pleasant sensations.
Once you manage to find the G-spot, you shouldn't turn it into a stuck button or joystick. The girl should imagine that there is a clitoris under the finger, which should be slightly pressed and stroked with soft circular movements. When a man approaches climax, sexologists recommend rhythmically pressing the G-spot approximately 1 time per 1 second.
With the help of special devices
You can give pleasure to your loved one with the help of sex toys. They allow you to influence both the external and internal "peas".Modern sex toys include:
- anal beads;
- vibratory stimulators;
- vibrators.
Sexologists recommend the use of anal beads for untrained men. To do this, they must be inserted into the anus and not removed until the end of intimacy with the lady.
When the orgasm is "on the threshold", the woman should start taking out 1 ball at a time. This will give the man incredible pleasure. When the man gets used to such intimate games, you can take other devices to bed. They should be used in the same waylike your fingers.
Precautions and contraindications
Not all men can affect the prostate. There are a number of contraindications for this type of intimate caresses.These include the following diseases:
- hemorrhoids;
- chronic inflammation of the prostate gland, as well as acute prostatitis;
- polyps;
- problems urinating;
- inflammatory processes in the rectum.
If during anal caresses mistakes are made in the technology of stimulation, hygiene rules are not taken into account and contraindications are ignored, then infections will occur in the prostate and inflammatory processes will worsen. Before an intimate experiment, it is advisable to consult a doctor.
Stimulating the G-spot in young people is not only a pleasant, but also a useful procedure that has a beneficial effect on men's health. Don't be shy about exploring your own body. The more pleasure points you can find, the better.
G-spot massage: everything for men and women, effective techniques
Understanding true lust from intimacy is impossible without a careful study of the erogenous zones of both your partner and yourself. This knowledge will enable you to get the most pleasure. The G-spot plays an important role in finding and studying erogenous zones. Anyone who wants to get the most out of intimacy should learn how to massage the G-spot.
A few words about the history of the G-spot
Sexuality has largely been explored from a woman's perspective. For the male body, it was previously believed that the onset of orgasm and ejaculation was the greatest pleasure of sex, although later they revised their views. Around the 80s of last year, sexologists (mainly in Western countries) increasingly began to come across patients who experienced a reactive orgasm (or squirt).
Such women describe their sensations as multiple (for a short time) orgasm, powerful and bright. But a few decades ago, in 1950, the German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg talked about a special area in the female genital organs, the stimulation of which leads to increased sexual desire and rapid orgasm, as well as the release of fluid as a result.
Some time later, after the death of the scientist, this zone began to be called for short - point G. In some sources you can also find such a description - point j, which is a definition of the same thing.
Much later, scientists found that a similar zone exists not only in women, but also in men. In other words, a man can get a stronger and brighter orgasm if a certain area is stimulated during caresses.
Location of the G-spot in women
This is one of the most common questions people ask. To begin with, you should understand that you should not look for a "point" or a "pea", as many think, but an area, an area. This area is located in the vagina, on the front wall, approximately 3-5 cm from the entrance to it. This area is not located directly on the wall, but as if inside it, that is, the mucosa should not be stimulated, but the tissues located deeper.
To better understand the location of the G-spot in women, it is necessary to locate the ureter. Closer to the exit of urine from the ureter, just around it, are the glands of Skene (or paraurethral glands), which are responsible for the most sensual sensations. If the girl lies on her back, then the area itself will be located just below the pubis and clitoris.
You can try to feel this area by palpation, that is, feel it with your fingers. To do this, the woman lies on her back. The man turns his hand with the palm toward him and carefully inserts 1 or 2 fingers into the partner's vagina. Now you should carefully explore the front surface of your partner's vagina with your fingertips. Some lumps and roughness are felt after 3-5 cm from the entrance. For some, the surface of the area even looks like heaven in the mouth. The inner tissues of this area are the desired G-spot.
Stimulate the G-spot in women
There are several ways to stimulate this area. Some require the presence of a partner, others can be performed independently, and others require the mandatory use of special devices (sex toys). So, here are the most common methods:
Using your fingers
This is the simplest and most affordable way. With your fingers, you can stimulate the desired area alone or in the presence of a partner, which will further excite both of you. A man can also massage his partner's G-spot, which will allow him to track the degree of her arousal and literally control the whole process by speeding up or slowing down certain stages of stimulation.
So your hands should be clean because the basic hygiene rules are literally the safety of your partner and yourself. It's a good idea to have lubricant on hand because lubrication always reduces friction and improves sliding. Meanwhile, some couples avoid lubrication because they think it reduces sensitivity.
In any case, the girl must be excited, which means that this process must include foreplay (any - kisses, touches and even cunnilingus). Only when the partner is literally wet "down there" can you begin to stimulate the G-spot. The finger should be inserted carefully, feeling every millimeter inside.
After finding the desired area, you should intensify the massaging movements by gently pressing on the skin. The finger is constantly looking up. If everything is done correctly, the probability that your partner will soon have an orgasm is very high.
During intercourse
Surprisingly, stimulating the G-spot in women during sex is not as easy as it may seem. Here you need to consider intercourse positions as much as possible. The angle of penetration should be such that the required area is constantly exposed to friction from the head of the partner's penis.
For example, the most famous missionary position in the classic version is not suitable for the desired purposes, since the penetration is from the top down, and not the other way around. To stimulate the G-spot, you should lift your partner's pelvis slightly so that her pubis is at the same level as the man's groin area. In this state, the angle of penetration will be "vertical", which means that the G-spot will be naturally stimulated by the head of the penis.
Everyone's favorite doge pose also needs a little tweaking. One should not lean on the knees, but stand with the legs slightly bent. His pelvis will be slightly higher than the level of his partner's vagina, and the head of the penis will simply rest on the front wall of the vagina where the desired area is located. Finally, there is another position for those women who love the "on top" position.
In this case, you should position yourself by turning 180 degrees to your partner, so that the man's head is between the girl's legs, and she rests her elbows on the surface of the bed. The fronts of the partners' bodies are looking up and their faces are looking at each other. Here the area is stimulated by the outer edge of the head of the penis. Here, the woman herself regulates and controls the process, which means that she can get the brightest orgasm.
Use of sex toys
Everything is very simple here. In specialized stores, you can find devices, most often vibrators, where their end is slightly curved upwards, which contributes to a more expressive effect on the desired area. Such devices can have additional features - rotation, vibration, different textures and shapes, as well as modes. You can also perform stimulation using them alone or with a partner.
Stimulation of the prostate: what organ is it?
The prostate is located below the bladder at the beginning of the urethra behind the pubic bone. It has a huge role in sexual, reproductive function and the act of urination. First of all, the prostate gland produces a fluid that makes sperm watery and mobile. By studying the topic of how to stimulate a man's prostate, you can help get rid of excess fluid and improve erections.
It is considered the male G-spot
Although the existence of this exact point has been questioned (one plausible version is the inner part of the clitoris), it is important to understand that the prostate is also considered the "orgasm button". It is even called the second male heart. Afterlearn how to stimulate his prostate so that he can cum, you will be able to completely conquer him and surprise him a lot.
Initially, the massage had a therapeutic purpose, but men quickly realized that it brings great pleasure. The arousal from G-spot stimulation relaxes the partner and maintains the erection. Applying knowledge of exactly how and where to stimulate the prostate helps to achieve a powerful and fast orgasm.
It's not that deep
The accessory reproductive gland is located behind the anal wall in the direction of the navel, a few centimeters from the sphincter. About three quarters of a finger deep into the anus, that is, it is quite possible to reach it. Stimulation of the prostate must be very careful because of its high sensitivity.
Why should you stimulate the prostate?
Even if a man has a rough idea of how to stimulate the prostate for pleasure, there are other important reasons for doing so. So, for what purposes is a massage needed:
- Improves blood circulation in the pelvic organs and blood circulation in the prostate gland.
- Draining lymph and secretions from the prostate, removing congestion, reducing swelling due to fluid accumulation, relieving the symptoms of prostatitis, for its treatment and prevention.
- Strengthening the muscles of the prostate gland.
- Strengthening of erection and increase of potency, sexual desire.
- Accelerates the penetration of drugs into the gland.
How to massage the prostate
Ideally, you should consult a doctor and watch a video on how to stimulate a man's prostate. Despite the beneficial effect, the procedure can cause pain and even harm the chosen one. But with skillful and careful handling, prostate massage will only be beneficial.
Discuss details
As with anything related to sex, you need your partner's consent for any manipulation. This is an expansion of your intimate boundaries and the realization of sexual fantasies. If you are close enough, you can taste this forbidden fruit.
Don't make it complicated
There's no need to make prostate stimulation a grand event. Plus, you don't even have to put your fingers inside! When discussing with your partner how you can stimulate the prostate, you can experiment.
For example, it will be easier to execute your plan in a knee-elbow position or on your side, preferably on the right. The knees should come close to the stomach. In this position, it is easiest to relax the desired area. Another way to better stimulate the prostate from the outside is to massage the area around the anus or touch it with your tongue. Either make it part of oral sex while your hands are busy with the penis, or pay attention to the area between the penis and the scrotum (indirect stimulation). There are many ways to achieve the desired result.
Relax
Both! Let the man lie on his back if he doesn't want to lift his pelvis up, and you sit between his legs. When you feel he is ready, gently insert your finger into his anus and start stimulating your husband or friend's prostate.
If your fingers encounter obstacles during the massage, take your time and wait until it relaxes properly. Maybe run your lips or fingers over his body. In this case, boys also need foreplay. Sexologists even recommend not to start intercourse with it. It is better to start the massage when both of you are already sufficiently "warmed up" and the orgasm is close.
But if you are so free-spirited and curious, it is not forbidden to try different options, at the beginning, middle or end.